I’m wondering where the term “pet peeves” came from. I’ll look it up via the lazy man’s route to information: wikipedia.
A pet peeve is a minor annoyance that an individual identifies as particularly annoying to them, to a greater degree than others may find it. Its first usage was around 1919.The term is a back-formation from the 14th-century word peevish, meaning “ornery or ill-tempered”.
Pet peeves often involve specific behaviors of someone close, such as a spouse or significant other.These behaviors may involve disrespect, manners, personal hygiene, relationships, and family issues.
A key aspect of a pet peeve is that it may well seem acceptable to others.
One of my pet peeves is when people apologize, when they share at the meeting, for being late to an AA meeting. Another is bloggers who apologize for not having posted very much lately—-so I’m not going to apologize for not posting at all lately.