Jesus performs his very first public miracle. How cool is that?
And his mother Mary is involved. She instructs them to, “Do whatever he tells you.” Simple advice for all of us!
But mostly in this Gospel I especially love the interaction between Jesus and his mom–having two sons of my own, I imagine the underlying messages in Jesus and Mary’s exchange.
“Woman, how does your concern affect me?”
This makes me laugh. I LOVE THIS.
“Woman.” Many writers have made note that at first glance this sounds a little disrespectful. But not willing to concede that Jesus was ever disrespectful to his mom, thankfully, more context is given which shows how the norms of the culture and language of Jesus’ day makes this address make sense.
To me, a mother of two sons ages 10 and almost 13, I don’t see disrespect at all—and I’m not an ancient culture or language scholar. I see humor, intimacy, a little sarcasm and a knowing smile behind Jesus’ chosen words to his mother in Cana.
Humor? Sarcasm? Where do I get that?
So, for example, my boys joke around with me all the time as a sign of affection. I think they get this from their father. When a boy teases a girl, it’s his way of showing her he likes her. It starts way back in grade school.
The other day I mentioned to Ben, “Ben, we really need to rake the yard or the grass isn’t going to grow this spring.”
Ben answered, “Yeah, Mom, we really do. (pointing) The rake is right over there.”
Of course, he grins when he says this and we both know my little phlegmatic-sanguine child will comply with my request. But he’s got to mess with me a little bit first.
Little boys—including Jesus—-love their mamas.
Jesus also uses, “Woman,” to address Mary Magdalene in John 20:15, saying, “Woman, why are you weeping?” He knows why she’s weeping — she came to the tomb and his body was gone. Next thing Jesus says in John 20:16 is “Mary!“ Like, “Hello? It’s me. I’m here. It’s okay.”
Last Sunday’s Gospel John 2:1-11
There was a wedding at Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the wedding. When the wine ran short, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.” And Jesus said to her, “Woman, how does your concern affect me? My hour has not yet come.” His mother said to the servers, “Do whatever he tells you.” Now there were six stone water jars there for Jewish ceremonial washings, each holding twenty to thirty gallons. Jesus told the them, “Fill the jars with water.” So they filled them to the brim. Then he told them, “Draw some out now and take it to the headwaiter.” So they took it. And when the headwaiter tasted the water that had become wine, without knowing where it came from — although the servers who had drawn the water knew —, the headwaiter called the bridegroom and said to him, “Everyone serves good wine first, and then when people have drunk freely, an inferior one;